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76. Planned influences
Today I started to think about how something happened with my daughter’s mother in 1986. Something happened with her, which was, that she became changed, in a way she didn’t want herself. Why is this? Her own understanding about herself lost its footing. She lost her footing in her own life.
Friday, January 31, 1986; we talked together in her home. When I talked about whom it could be possible to talk to, about what I had started to understand that went on in secret, she asked me to call one of my friends, and ask him to come to us. Some days earlier, I had asked him to go and talk to her, about that she didn’t need to be afraid of me. Therefore, she knew who he was. But, she didn’t knew him more than that.
At that time, I also started to think that this was because she was afraid of me. Just before this, I had said to my friend that he didn’t know anything about this situation, and that he shouldn’t have more to do with it. I said that, to my daughter’s mother. I said that we could ask her father to come instead. But she said that her father didn’t understand anything about this, and she didn’t want that.
My daughter’s mother didn’t want her father to come, because she said that he didn’t understand about this. I didn’t what my friend to come, because I said that he didn’t understand about this. At this moment, she understood that her father had a wrong influence over it all. And he had also had a wrong influence over her, just before this.
Because I thought she wanted someone to come, because she was afraid of me; I said that she could call my friend, and ask him to come. But I didn’t want to call him, because I didn’t want him to come. This must be something I was influenced to, by the criminals who do crimes against the humans’ minds. This was too stupid. She said that she wanted my friend to come and help me. This must be because she had experienced him as a person, who wanted to help me.
When I said that I didn’t what to call him, but that she could do it; she called him. After that, it took too much time before he came. I said that now my friend had started to do something, because he had become flustered. Today I understand that he had done her afraid of me, when she called him. He had no reason to do that. That was because of what her father had said to him some days before, which was something wrong. What she didn’t know, because she didn’t know him, was; that at that point of time, it was him, who was dangerous, because he had become flustered and started to imagine himself wrong things.
Some days earlier, when my friend was there, he met her father there. Now I understand that they both have influenced each other, with their different imaginations. Before they met, they had their own imagination each. After they had met, they got each other’s imaginations in addition to their own, which only was stuff and nonsense. It had nothing to do with what was correct.
In this situation Friday, January 31, 1986; my daughters mother thought about that I didn’t know how her father did everything wrong, and I thought about that she didn’t know how my friend did everything wrong. My friend only knew about a very little part of my life, nearly nothing. We had only met and talked superficial about other things, than about ourselves. We shouldn’t have called neither of them. It became catastrophic that we didn’t found out that early enough. They had become two terrible twaddlers, who started to walk about and talked nonsense about us to others. This must in one way or another, be because of influences by the criminals.
At this point of time, our daughter was on her way home from a theater, together with her friend and her friend’s mother. This looks clearly as if; it all is a complex plan, made by others. Our problem was that we didn’t understand about that. If we had understood about what really went on, then we could have managed to do everything much better.
When thinking about that my daughter’s mother became changed, in a way she didn’t want herself; I now started to think about that her father sometimes had a tendency to say the opposite, of what he wanted to achieve; when he talked with someone, who didn’t agree with him. He could comply with the person he talked to, when he wanted to influence the person to an opposite understanding. Because of that, he could have talked to her in a way, which achieved the opposite of what she wanted, without her understanding about it. In addition to that, her whole family became influenced of her father’s wrong imaginations, which strengthened how she changed, in a way she didn’t want. Her father could have a driving force, which characterizes influenced people. Such influences are not the person’s own thoughts and feelings. Such influences from outside, have played a part in our lives for a long time, without our understanding about it. Of course there where many other things with her father; he worked hard and wanted to be kind. This is something I today only just have started to understand a little about.
A text like this, is something I compare with a little piece from an archaeological dig. After digging out many of them, such pieces start to show what it all can be. Influences by the criminals are something decisive with all of this. Without these influences, noting of this had happened. This situation is build up like a structure, the more it is possible to find out about it, the more it is like that. To understand about that, will make it possible to understand what this is.
For our daughter, this situation got a special difficulty. The more I did kind things for her, the more her mother’s father wanted to ruin her contact with me. The more she wanted to be together with me and my family, the more he wanted to ruin it for her. And he got as usual, his whole family to dance to his tune. That had happened before, in 1974. This has been very difficult for our daughter. Her mother’s father wasn’t like that, before this situation started to develop in 1985. This is something which took control over her mother’s father. It looks as if he started to be afraid, of that I wanted to take our daughter away from her mother, that is totally wrong. At that time, I wanted that our daughter should have her main home, where she lived together with her mother. I wanted to support that. For her mother, it became too much for her, how her daughter was hurt because of all of this. It was too much to bear for her. Actually, that was what happened to me also. Some has done a crime, to achieve this. Some want to hide what has happened.
It is difficult not to understand. It is much easier to understand.
It can be possible to see the whole situation, like a schematic visualization. Where the different people and how they affect one another and the whole situation, are shown as symbols. How the situation develops, can be shown with a sequence of different schematic visualizations. In this visualized presentation, a series of errors can be shown. These errors have ruined what was correct about us and our situation together. Confronted with these errors, it can be possible to correct them all.
The criminals who do crimes against the humans’ minds, have planned and influenced to all of this. It is no doubt about that. They are dangerous because they can do such things.
October 27, 2016, David H. Hegg